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i don't know what to do :[
okayy i really need advice asap. okay so theres this girl who now goes to my school this year & shes a sweetheart and were friends. Were not like super close but i love her to death. So theres this guy at my school that is just gorgeous & i really like him. We hung out and all that & i really connected with him. Well when i came home i found out that the girl that i'm friends with went out with him for about a year off and on. She was upset with me and cried so muchh. Like she told me she doesn't want to be friends with me anymore cause it hurts her too much and she thinks i don't care about her. i talked to her and all that but she decided not to be friends. When one of my friends get mad at me, like everyone does and i'm so scared of that. I know your gonna say well then their not real friends but idk, just bare with me lol.anyways - Well the guy i like says he really likes me & don't even like his ex girlfriend anymore but shes still head over heels for him. I offered to stop talking to him and shes like NOO i don't wanna make your life shitty, please just get to know him & leave me out of it. I really don't know what to do. When i hung out with him the other dayy, i didn't wanna leave. Hes so cute & sweet and ahh i just like him alott. So what do i do? The girl i was friends with said shed get overr it eventually but i don't want the whole world hateing me because of this. For one its not their business and two, i can't stop who i likee even when i didn't know they datedd. i'm so shooken up over this situation. My best friend is also friends with this girl and i'm so afraid she`ll turn on me after she said she really wouldn't. I'm so scared. And i feel so bad that i did this to the girl but i don't know what to do. should i stop talking to him? should i just let her get used to it, or get over it ? please help me alma. - i know you, & your one truthful person. Just give me advice on what you would do if you were in my place. thnk you so much.
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I don't see why your friend automatically said she wouldn't be your friend just because you started to like her ex-boyfriend. She's being unreasonable, that's for sure. If you kept track of every guy that you liked & his ex-girlfriend ; you'd never find a boyfriend. Honestly your friend will eventually get over it, but you have to understand that she is hurt and mad, and it's not that she's mad at you ; she's hurt at the fact that he's seeing other people. It's, I guess, a reaction people get when they see their ex's with others. You didn't even know that they went out before so it's not like you PLANNED to go after this one particular guy. Your other friends shouldn't turn against you because you're right ; it's NOT their business, & if your friend goes and involves everyone in your business then she's not someone who you can trust. I don't think you should stop liking this boy, because I think your friend is throwing this a little out of proportion, but let her calm down a little, and then try talking to her about this again. I hope everything works out.
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I can understand why that girl is upset and hurt but shes making a big deal of out nothing. She doesn't understand that you didn't know about them two before and besides, they're broken up and she needs to accept the fact that he will be with other people. I personally don't think that she will turn on you but your best friends will stay on your side if they understand the situation. Don't stop talking to this guy or hanging out with him. It's not your fault and you did nothing wrong and don't feel bad about it. & you are right, it is none of their buisness about who you're with or what you do. You need to talk to this girl again and explain to her that you didn't mean to hurt her and that you didn't know about it and honestly, even if you did it still shouldn't matter. You need to make yourself happy and not think about who's going to hate you or what they will say. & it's okay lol.. next time just type my name instead. I was kind of lost but oh well.
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