i have a friend who is seriously in love with two different girls. this one girl (caitlin) he has been dating for almost 4 months and she is settled on him and wants to be with him forever. They have gone out before, but it didn't work out and 2 years later she came back to him saying how she never forgot about him and he felt the same way and now theyre together again. My friend felt the same way she did up until last week. He had dated this other girl ariana for about two months at the begining of this year. He worked for 4 straight months to get her to go out with him and when she finally did rumors started going around that he cheated on her when he really didnt and they ended up breaking up. Right now he is in love with both of them, ariana never left his mind and its been almost a year since he started liking her. He's been talking to ariana non stop for the past week and she likes him too. Does anyone know which girl he should chose? He feels obligated to stay with caitlin cuz hes already f***ed her over before and doesnt want to do it again. It's really confusing and im the only person he can talk to about this but i dont know wat to tell him. help plase!
jaf1230 answered Saturday August 18 2007, 6:54 pm: I think that he should go with his instinct to stay with Caitlin. If the two of them stay together forever, that's great. If they break up, Ariana might still be there waiting for him. He needs to be honest with Ariana, though, and tell her that he has a girlfriend (if she doesn't already know). [ jaf1230's advice column | Ask jaf1230 A Question ]
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