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I "need" my space.............
Okay have you ever had a friend that's burn...have no legs...or arm or something is wrong w/ them like their not normal.My friend is burn we've been such gud friend for the last 2 years or so.........but it's just that since we started high school she got insecure and like controlling to me....she's getting on my nerves I want to to still be friends but it seems I can't because you know she stuck in a wheel chair she doesn't have feet to walk on and move about like other people...I want to end it but not sure if i should what to do?????????????
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My guess is that your friend is worried that you'll find new friends and leave her behind with no friends at all. People don't really talk to her do they? No one probably makes an effort to be her friend. I don't know, but I'm guessing you're one of her only friends. She's most likely being controlling because she doesn't want to lose you as a friend to other people.
If I were in her position I would be insecure too. People ignore her because they don't know how to act around her or they just tease her because she's different. Therefore it's probably really hard for her to make friends. So talk to her about how you're feeling and give her another chance, you may be her only true friend. How would you feel if you had no one to talk to?
::Jasmine::
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If I had to take a guess here, i'd say that your friend has become more controlling because she doesn't know anyone else in your new school, and her disability puts her at an obvious disadvantage with everyone else. She is probably quite scared to make new friends because she fears their rejection and subsequent ridicule because of her condition.
Just go with her and make new friends. But don't give up on her. That would be the worst thing you could do. It's at this time she needs you most.
Take a chance on her, and maybe you'll be friends for many more years to come :)
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