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men and a woman
15/m
Ok so heres the thing, there is this guy who likes the same girl I do. The girl is 14 and this other guy is 18. This girl happens to be a bit shy, and mysterious...goth/loner like. She is friendly and playfull at times. She can seem a bit flirty, and a certain innocence. This other guy likes her for the same reasons I do. The other guy also just broke up with his ex. If I try anything I am just worried that I would be hated by the group, and my secrets i trusted them with would be told, or that i'd be kicked out of the group. He is also a good friend. Please help... im not sure what to do
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Well you are closer to her age, so I think it would actually be better if you were with her...
but can't make her like someone she doesn't, so maybe she likes you, maybe she likes him. Talk to your friend about it, see if it would be okay if you dated her. But would you be okay if she dated him instead of you? And is this girl worth possibly ruining your friendship?
You can always say "May the best man win," but then there would be this big competition between you and your friend and that may cause problems. Just think this situation over, think about the consequences and who and what is more inportant to you.
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Ok, first you told me that the girl is shy, so, sometimes when a guy is like four years older then her, she might not be ready for it like shes ready for you, but that not promising anything.
Second there are two things, you can do.
1. you ca talk to the other guy and tell him how you feel about this girl and how you would really appricate if he steped down you could give it a try, and if you crash and burn then she his for a try.
2. You can ask her out first and see where that goes.
Please don't do anything stupid if you do get this girl, let her keep her innocence.
Hope this helps,
AlyssaBT4T
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