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TOO HORNY?/Masturbating in dorms
14/f
I'm seriously way too horny all the time. I've been this way since I turned 13 and I don't know what I can do about it. Is it because I masturbate to orgasm so frequently? 4x a day or every 12 hours. It distracts me from being normal. Like I'll be watching a movie or trying to do something social, and all of a sudden i feel my pussy throbbing and i get goosebumps all over my body and my clit feels enflamed. and my mind fills with sexual fantasies that I can't get rid of. I also get horny every time I sit down. And then I have to start riding the seam. Whenever I'm alone i start touching myself even if i'm not really masturbating at the time.
Random things can trigger this response, like i'll get super horny looking at a woman or girl... Or a man. teen-middle age. And I have random sexual thoughts about every 4 seconds i'd say. I've talked to my mom about this but she doesn't help she's just like "YOU'RE SUCH A WEIRDO. TAKE A FRIGGIN COLD SHOWER!" But cold showers don't help me they just make me hornier because of the temperature difference.
Do I have a problem with my libido? What can I do about it? This seriously distracts me from normal daily things that I have to do.
also- i'm going to a boarding school next year where i'll have a roommate and the bathroom in the dorm is like a public bathroom with stalls and stuff, not a 1-person one. How can I continue masturbating every day? I use a sonicare toothbrush and it's kind of loud.
any advice appreciated.
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You are a teenager, your hormones are raging, you discovered something new that feels great- so this is normal.
Don't worry, it will start to wear off. It's like when you find a new song that you love and play it over and over, then it loses some of its appeal. You still like it but only listen to it every once in a while.
As for the dorm, that will be kind of hard because you don't want someone to find out and be embarassed. Even though I'm sure they do it too, some kids can be cruel. So try to keep this under wraps. Use your fingers quietly and try to just do it when no one is around.
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while there is nothing medically wrong with masturbating, it can become a pyschological fixation. basically, an addiction. that is kinda bad. since you will soon be in an environment where it will be difficult, you should probably start cutting back now. once a day is perfectly healthy. if the bathrooms have shower stalls you can just masturbate in there. use your fingers so its not loud.
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First, theres nothing wrong with masturbating. In fact, my whole family is medical and they view it as perfectly normal. But you should know you shouldnt be using a toothbrush. The bristles can damage your clitoris and eventually you will no longer be able to orgasm at all. So stop before that happens. I was using a toothbrush and then my dad told me about three girls that came into his office and couldnt orgasm because of electric toothbrushes. I threw mine out. Several times i felt the need to pull it out of the trashcan and use it, but I stopped myself. Just use your fingers!
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