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from love to hate
i was really good friends with my ex Brian up until he got a new girlfriend and now he barely talks to me. he ignored me for about two weeks and then last night he IMed me saying that he missed me and that he wanted to start talking again. but then he asked me to have phone sex with him and when i said no he hung up and started ignoring me again. i know that this isn't a way i should let someone treat me but i still love him.. i think. should i try to make him my friend again or should i forget about him? i don't know what to do! please help me!much appreciation.
<3 Chelsea
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Chelsea,
I've been in the same situation in a way.
No you should discontinue the relationship. If he wanted to be with you or be friends with you he would deffinantly show it. Ask yourself the question....Would any of your close friends do that too you?
And Phone sex? The man is obviously a horn dog.and you are cleary a booty call.
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hmmm. well, i think. that when he got that new girlfriend, he just wanted to talk to her. i mean, im like that too. whenever i have a boyfriend, ill really only care about talking to him and my best friends. like yano what i mean? and then one day, when his girlfriend wasnt on or something, he realized you were on, and realized he missed talking to you.
However. thats what i think, until he asks you to have phone sex with him. this is where thats kinda weird. i mean he has a girlfriend, you'd think he'd do that with her? lol. sooo, for that, i think hes using you. i think his girlfriend wasnt around or something, and he saw you, and yeah. and then when you said no [which was good] he got mad that you didn't want to do what he wanted to do. and yeah. i'd forget about him. find other guys. theres plenty of them.
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i say forget about him. he doesn't seem like that great of a guy because if he really wanted to be friends with you or he really missed you he would have never lost contact. also if hes gonna be immature like that and get mad because you wouldn't have phone sex then forget it. i was in a situation JUST like that one and then i realized that the guy was just stupid. trust me, it might be hard, but you will get over him.
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