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sexual harrasment + school
Going into my juinor year,
For the past year or so every once in a while I would get a remark saying hey Jane "when are you going to give me that blowjob I've been asking for?" or like "Go f*ck yourself!" And I've had enough of this, I don't have any friends at this school (not to mention it's a private school) and everyone there is just really mean to me. I've joined organizations to make friends and stuff, and I have, but its hard when they don't go to your school. Overall, I am a nice person, and I've had the reputation of being that person to go out of their way to please someone else (non-sexual way.) I've never had the reputation of a slut or anything; but now it's getting ridiculous I get calls (they come up as private) at two in the morning saying to go f*ck myself. I am almost 100% sure these guys are from my grade because it sure does sound like them, but they never even had a class with me or have gotten to know me, and my other guy friends would never do this to me, I know them too well (and they don't go to my school) . And our whole grade is 30 kids. I asked last year to my parents if I could switch schools, but they said no they want me to go to a private school until I graduate. I would go to a private catholic school but the problem is that I am not catholic and the schools I checked into say that one of your parents has to regularly attend church. There is one other private non-denimental (sp) school, but it's too costly for my parents. I would be considering boarding school but that's also too costly and I'm sure it's too late to register, and, my school's guidence counselor told me I should switch, but my parents don't want me to go to public school because my brother didn't do so well and I don't want to go to public school either. But I don't know what to do at this point because for the past two years I've attended this school I've been picked on and sexually harrased. I never told anyone that I've been sexually harrased but I want to tell my mom, but I don't know how, and everyone there is just really mean, I've tried making friends in different grades, but it's harder and the friends I have made are leaving. I am slowly collapsing into a depression right now and my therapist said that she's suprised I haven't rebelled yet. But I want to tell my mom first that I've been sexually harrased and my therapist second.
So what should I do? How should I tell my mom that I've been sexually harrased? Thank You so much and I'm sorry for length
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You should really just plain tell your mom that the kids at your school are mean to you.
I could understand that it'd be embarassing to tell her what exactly they tell you so just tell her what you're comfortable telling.
You can also write her a letter and get it all out of your system without speaking to her at all. That seems to help sometimes.
But it seems like you've made an enemy somewhere along the road, maybe not purposely, but maybe you should try talking to the people that are mean to you.
I'm really sorry for what you have to go through and I hope it gets better!
Hope this helped!
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Write your mom a note. Or let her read this.
Whats wrong with public? Just because your brother didnt do well dont mean you will not do well. You two are two different people. You should give it a try, and if you dont like it switch back to private. Its free. So it would save your parents a ton of money. And you will get to know different types of people not just the types that can afford private schools. Who would want to be thrown into a world where they didnt have a great range of different cultures??
Or didnt know alot about different types of people??
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