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bestfriends...forever?
well i have this friend. lets call him bob. well me and bob met 2 years ago this day. and last year bob was really sweet and sent me a real cute message saying happy aniversary and other things. me and bob were really close friends but lately it feels like we're drifting apart i've told him several times before and all he says is "dont worry baby im not going anywhere" but his actions say otherwise. and im tired of being the one who is putting more effort in this friendship than him. i sincerely don't want to lose his friendship because it feels like he's the only one who understands me. is he getting tired of me? or whats going on here, i don't know what to do. and it seems like it controls my emotions, because i feel really sad and stuff and i really dont wanna feel like that.
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yeah i agree with the person below me, but the opposite could be true as well.
maybe he really just thinks of you as a friend, and anything could be causing this time. He could be really busy with something in his life, he could be really upset about something and it's controlling his emotions and making him avoid people, it really could be anything. So maybe just give it some time, and don't try as hard to put in the effort, just maybe give it a rest for a while and see if he ends up putting effort back in, but if he doesn't... then you'll know that this friendship was meant to end.
i hope i helped.
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I'm gonna say that Bob wants to be more than friends, and he's watching you date other guys, and it hurts.
I think you should consider going out with Bob.
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