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nothing to worry about?
before i made out with a guy for the first time, i was nervous and i'll be honest, looked up how to make out. i didn't end up needing any of that advice- it came naturally. it was fine.
then i was freaking out about being felt up, but that too was just natural.
so my question is this: i see sooo many questions on here about being fingered/giving handjobs/oral sex/ACTUAL sex.... but in the end don't all those things just come naturally? like just go w/ the flow and i'll just know what to do?
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You're right. When you're in the middle of doing all that stuff, you aren't going to be thinking of all the tips and stuff that you learned on websites and on advicenators. You'll just be going with the flow of what you're doing. I used to read those websites before I made out with somebody, too and when it happened none of that stuff really mattered. You're right, those things do come naturally! But sometimes it's good to get some info before you actually go through with doing something, so that you're more comfortable with doing it.
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Yes these things come naturally You'll never get better at them without trying.....example..it's not really possible to get really good at making out by doing it with the back of your hand. Same with sex.
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Well, we are all only human, and afraid of making a mistake.Or looking stupid in front of someone we like. We hope that having more information will make us less nervous but it doesn't. You found out the same way we all did.
Once you've tried it, you find out that it does come natural. Of course having a partner who is patient and kind and makes us feel comfortable, helps a lot. After all, it is almost impossible to do it wrong. But glad that you are now over your nervousness.
Michele
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