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**ugh** what is my problem?
WARNING: LONGGG but please help
okay... well everytime i get a boyfriend... i cant date them for along time....and when i actually started dating this guy i really liked... i just felt soo weird.... [[becuase
1. hes like wayyy shorter than me... so tht makes me feel sorta like watched....]] oh and also... right after he kissed me.. i started feeling different.... i felt like i didnt like him that much at all...
so we broke up... and ten when he flirts with my friends i get toaally jelous...
so yeah... any advice why i only do "hook-ups" and not "relartionships" ?
all advice needed
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It sounds like you want them and then when you get them you don't. YOu like the attention, but everything else scares you. Perhaps you are not ready to be in a relationship, but still long for attention from the opposite sex. The solution to that is make friends of the opposite sex, but make sure you set clear boundaries so that you're not making out with your friends. Take time to get to know yourself and understand what about a committment scares you.
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I used to be just like that. I'd like a guy, then once I actually had him, I didn't want him anymore. I just realized that I didn't want a commitment. I decided to just have fun. It was a good choice. Enjoy being single, and stop looking for a boyfriend. When you find someone really special, you'll know it, and you'll know that it's time for a relationship. Until then, just have fun =)
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Well your not dating anyone you actually like.Or you just not being patient and waiting for a good guy.Don't go out and look for a boyfriend.It's about letting guys come to you.And your boyfriends shouldn't be flirting with your friends.If they are, then you need to do something about it.If your friends are flirting back there is even more of a problem.Wish you look and if you need any more advice,Ask me.
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Uh, I used to do that too. Its proberly because you arent ready to date. At the time I wasnt ready to date and I was alwyas dumping guys, Just wait a little while.
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your probably jelous because you like his attention to be on you so you should probably tell him you should try again
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Just wait longer.
Be a guys friend long enough to understand what you're really feeling.
Hope this helped!
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