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twisted up. drunk.
so my boyfriend got drunk one night with his friends and girls were there of course.. i found a hickey on him and he was like "aww baby im sorry you really cant control yourself when your drunk" so i forgave him.. then his friend told me that he almost had sex but his sister came in time to stop him.. should i break up with him.. or was it just a mistake that he did and i should forgive him..
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dump him... drunk isn't an excuse to do things with other girls. the fact that you found out instead of him telling you is bad too. it wasn't "just a mistake". you deserve better. <3
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Lets get one thing straight here. Alcohol takes away your inhibitions, it just lets you do things that you want to do, but wouldn't normally. It DOES NOT put new ideas in your head. So, your boyfriend saying that 'you just can't control yourself' is being totally unfair and horrible to you.
Alcohol or no alcohol, if he is capable of cheating on you, he will always be capable of cheating on you.
It would be a bit different if he had kissed a girl - but HE NEARLY HAD SEX. Chuck him right away girl. Move on. Find someone who deserves you and treats you right.
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Sometimes you can't control your actions, but you still have an idea of what's going on..
Plus, it's one of the worst excuses known to mankind, because noone can actually be certain he was so under the infuence he had no idea what he was doing... or the fact he used being drunk as an excuse to cheat on you.
You said he's been forgiven, so follow your heart. You can either tell him if he ever makes this mistake again, it's over. Give him an ultimatum - No more getting drunk, especially with other girls around.
But to be perfectly honest, if I were in your position right now, I would end it. Drunk or not drunk, it doesn't matter. It's still cheating.. and the fact he was close to having sex just makes matters worse.
What do YOU personally want to do? If you trust him and believe it won't happen again, you can work around it. People do make mistakes, unfortunately.
Best of luck with your decision, sweetie.
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Being drug is not a reason to go out and have sex with another girl. Though he didn't go through with it, he's still an asshole. Break up with him.
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break up with him! being drunk is no excuse for cheating on you. he obviously wasnt thinking about you at all when he was about to have sex with another girl. thats just wrong.
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