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boyfriend going to movies
my boyfriends going to the movies with her old friend angelina, and angelinas friend who i dont know. he asked me if it was okay and i said yes even though i didn't mean it. i dont want to be stupid and be like no you cant go. the thing is my boyfriend use to have feelings for her, like a year ago and thats what worrys me. can anyone give me advice not to think about it? or something so i dont worry as much? i do trust him im just blah jealous i guess =/
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First of all, if it happens again, don't say
things you don't mean. Not a good habit to
start!
Instead talk to him about it. Tell him it
really makes you uncomfortable since he
used to have feelings for her. He will
then at least reassure you he no longer
has feelings for this girl.
Do the same now. Talk to him and let him
know how you really feel about it. Talking
about things like this is a good thing. He
is the only one who can make you feel better
about it so don't keep your feelings inside. :)
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you have a right to be jealose, and nervose about it.
and no, it is not okay.
he has a girlfriend,
and so he doesnt need to go to the movies with some other girl he used to have feelings for.
it would make sence if maybe it was a big group of friends, or if he asked you to come but you couldnt. but thats not the case.
he obviously stil has feelings for her. =/
so in my opinion, you have two options.
either tell him to changed your mind, and that its deff. not okay with youu.
orr.
you can just talk to him about it, ask him why he feels like he needs to go to the movies with some other girl, and if maybe hes not happy in your guys relationship..or if he has feelings for her. if he gives you the right answers, and invites you. then go. but if he doesnt invite you, or tells you he does have feelings for her. i would dump him.
its one thin just having him like another girl,
but its another thing to actually have him have a movie date with her, he obviously wanted something to happen between them, if he has feeligns for herr.
good luck =]]
i rlly hope i helped
id love it if you'd keep me updated.
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Well, you can tell him that you're jealous.
But considering he asked you, he thinks it's okay now.
Just don't let him think something is okay when it's not, he'll get confused when you decide that it isn't okay.
Just ask him a series of questions that would convince you that Angelina isn't any sort of threat.
Hope this helped! Good luck!
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