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i neeed help please
well .. i really like this boy but the problem is he has a girlfriend. i know i shouldnt interfere but i just cant help it i really like him. and recently ive started seeing a lot of him and its just making me like him even more. but this weekend i was out with him, and we ended up kissing, and he told me stuff like he fancies me.. and keeps talkin about when hes single whats going to happen with us and stuff.. but its doing my head in because how long does that mean, i am prepared to wait for him.. but i dont wanna if hes going to stay with her.
when i was with him.. his girlfriend was also ringing.. and he was ignoring her calls answould say things like.. ahh i hope shes trying to finish me.
before i hooked up with him that night.. i hooked up with another lad.. and he was realy mad with me about it.. bt weve talked about it now and were ok!
please help me its doing my head in.. does he actually mean it .. or is he just playing with my head?
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You are a woman and that means you have the control over the relationship. This guy is not into you and he is incapable of being into anybody. How would you feel if you were the girl he was ignoring? Doesn't feel so good huh? Well, in a couple of months or so that will be you. He will be telling another girl what he's going to do with her when he leaves you. Is that really what you want? You deserve more let him know that!
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the first thing i want you to understand is that you are worth much more than this, because he is treating you like a mistress. but, he probably finds security in that girl because she's probably never done anything to him, but if he's doing this to her, you have to be aware that he could do the same thing to you, and you wouldn't like it if he were with someone else and ignoring your calls. i'm not saying you have to turn him down but let him know that you want his respect and that you are not going to be interested in dating him until he is fully committed to you, and by doing this he will also be aware that you are trustworthy and that you won't be cheating on him either
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He says he "fancies" you but is dating another girl... And he kissed you but hasn't dumped his current girlfriend yet, has he?
As hard as it is for me to say... Chances are that "he's just not into you." Because... If he was he would be dating YOU instead of that other girl! I'd forget this boy and look elsewhere for a potential boyfriend. You might consider allowing him to take you out on a date if he dumps her soon. But don't wait; you could be waiting for someone that doesn't realize how fabulous you really are and therefore... does not deserve you. ;)
P.S. Please RUN to your nearest bookstore and buy a copy of "He's Just Not That Into You," by Greg and Liz. A must have for every dating female.
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