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Question Posted Sunday August 5 2007, 5:27 pm

13/f. My ex boyfriend is 14. He broke up with me last week and I got upset because he just said that he was going to high school and I will still be in middle school and I was to little for him and that stuff what ever excuse's!!!.. This was before -- My best friend use to like him so did I and when he asked me out. I asked her if it would be okay for her and she won't get upset with it. She said it's fine as long as I'm happy. And yesterday I saw him the second time after he broke up with me. My best friend and my other friend we're with me. Let's call my best friend P and my other friend E. Me and E let P talk to these guy's. So me and E we're just walking around, but my ex was with P and the other guy's. After P was done talking to the guy's and E left. P told me that my ex asked if I was mad at him adn P said yes I was. It's true. And then my ex told P that this was all her fault that we broke up. And that got me more upset too. And when me and P we're walking I saw my ex. And he asked me why is everyone mad at him [talking about my friend's as everyone] and then I said I don't know maybe because they want to be. And then he said are you mad at me. I said no duh I'm mad at you. You expect me to be all happy after you break up with me and you tell my best friend it was her fault that you broke up with me. And he didn`t say anything and walked away. Sorry I wrote alot I just wanted you to understand the story. But in your acvice why do you think he blamed P for us breaking up? And why does he expect me to happy after all this? Does it seem like he still have feeling's for me. Thank you for taking you time to read this.

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Melody answered Monday August 6 2007, 6:01 pm:
I think he broke up with you because he's confused. He's getting ready to start highschool and everything is going to be changing in his life soon. He's growing up, and he's just simply confused. Guys go through these weird stages where they don't know what they want to do with there lives at that age, and they don't know if they want a girlfriend. They just basically don't know anything. These stages may last a few days, a few weeks, a month, or maybe longer. It's hard to tell. He probably blamed your friend because he needed a scape goat. Someone to blame his actions on because he don't know why he did it to begin with. I say go on with your life. If he doesn't even know if he has feelings for you still, how am I going to tell you?

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