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Typical problem
I'm 14/f. Okay I have this HUGE crush on my best friend Liam (not his real name that's just what I'm calling him). We have been best friends for 4 years and I've like him for about 3 but been in denial about it for 2 years. It's just whenever I need someone to talk to he's always been there when I really needed someone. He's funny, sweet, and we have so much in common. I think about him every day but I don't know if he thinks about me the way I think about me. I know we have a weird sexual attraction to each other and I know he knows I like him (my friend Nikki told him) but it's like he just completely over looks that fact whenever he's around me and our other friends. But when we talk online or text he's more flirty with me. What should I do? Should I talk to him about it? Ignore my crush and try to start seeing him as a friend? or just stop talking to him so my heart can move on?
Oh and by the way I'm not the boy crazy chick who says I'm in love with a guy then two days later say I'm in love with another.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Tell him. Just let him know, and he may feel the same way.
Do not doubt yourself , be confident, and you will feel much better.
If he likes you- then that's awesome!
If he doesnt- you can still be friends.
It is a win- win situation!
Good luck.
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Just tell him. It's much better to tell him and have him not feel the same way, than to not tell him and spend the rest of your life wonderign what could've been.
Just bring it up one day, like, "Listen Liam, I really like you. You've always been there for me, and you're just an all around great guy. Do you think we could take our relationship to the next level?" or something like that.
Good Luck! =]
-Laura. (15-f)
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I can relate. Maybe he likes you too and he just wont admit it and thats why he acts like that around you when your wit other people and then flirts with you online. Or maybe he sees you as a friend.. but you wont know until you talk to him.
My advice: Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Maybe you'll be the new hottest couple at school? But if he says he doesn't like you in that way Don't feel bad! Some guys have it in their head that once there friends with a girl, there like one of the guys. Guys don't realize that there may be more of a connection between you two. So give it a try and tell him how you really feel.. in person might be better than a phone call or an Im
Your welcome & good luck!
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