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I dont want to be lectured...help please
Okay So yeah i know im at a risk for pregnancy.
Im 14 years old and I had sex with a condom on,he came in the condom,and that was that.
Then,he asked if we could do it for 3 seconds without the condom [ofcourse me not thinking,] i said yes.
And just what I thought would happen,it ended up being more than 3 seconds,it was maybe 1 minute or 30 seconds.
I gave him head before that so he was already half way done and he said he didnt cum in me,but i think some of it went in me and i saw some of it on the ground.
BUT i do have an advantage,I dont get my period every month.
I had gotten it about 2 and a half or 3 years ago and since then i only got it maybe 4 or 5 times.
So I dont think my menstrual cycle is normal ,So i was thinking on the bright side if I dont drop an egg ,it can't be fertilized right?
I could be wrong and I know there is a chance of me being pregnant,but is that an advantage at all?
Also,i read on this website that there are only 3-5 days a month that its most likely to get pregnant so thats also an advantage.
The reason I dont have my period is because im bulimic and i exercise veryyyy much.
please dont lecture me,but i need some help not someone to tell me ive made a mistake ,i realize that.
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Anytime you have sex there is a chance of being pregnant. Espically if it's unprotected. The sperm can live inside of you for several days. Yes, if your egg hasn't dropped it can't be fertalized, but if I were you I would still take a pregnancy test. Wait about a month and then do so.
Since you realized you made a mistake, I will not lecture you about that. However, bullemia is a serious disease. I urge you to get help.
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this is gonna be hard not to lecture. sinc you're sooo young and could possibly thrown your life away.
ANYWAYS. the best way to know for sure, is to go and buy a pregnancy test. i'm not sure where you buy them from, because ive never bought one. but probably like a drugstore or something. if you can, just go walk up there, buy one, and like go in the bathroom and look. i doubt you are though..
good luckkk.
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Hi there,
Okay so this is a difficult problem and you don't want a lecture so I wont give you one. We all make mistakes from time to time and the best thing for you to do is to find out for sure. Wait a week or so and then go and buy a pregnancy kit (or two if you want to double check). They're not hard to get, they're not expensive and you don't have to tell your parents at this stage. Follow the instructions that come with it and then take it from there. If you're not pregnant then great. Don't make the same mistake again. If you are pregnant then remain calm. It's not the end of the world. When you're certain, you should let your boyfriend and parents know and they can help you through it. Abortion may or may not be an option and fourteen isn't an ideal age to raise a child but it can be done. I hope this helps,
Heather xx
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