queenhearts answered Wednesday August 1 2007, 2:59 pm: Of course he's going to talk to other girls.. But if he's flirting back, then that's a problem.
I think you took it the wrong way.
He's not going to cheat on you or anything.. if he said he had a girlfriend. He sounds faithful to me. He said friendships are a lot better to those girls, because a friend is what they will always be to him.
To me, you're his girlfriend and he doesn't want to be with them.. so that's why he said a friendship will last longer for THEM.
A couple of girls always flirt with my boyfriend and he always mentions that he has a girlfriend. You can't stop girls from liking him or talking to him. You don't want to seem jealous. He should be able to talk to other girls, just like how you talk to other guys. It's just your friends. They should know their boundaries. [ queenhearts's advice column | Ask queenhearts A Question ]
NikkiM answered Wednesday August 1 2007, 12:48 pm: Well to me it sounds like your bf is faithfull ;) If he really did want to cheat on you then he wouldnt tell the girls that he has a girlfriend would he =] If i were you hun i wouldnt worry about it x x [ NikkiM's advice column | Ask NikkiM A Question ]
RATZY answered Wednesday August 1 2007, 7:20 am: dont worry, you know guys they're just guys basically..but i guess you could try to be both his girlfriend and a friend, lend him an ear as all friends do, have joke, laugh, even (you could pretend if you want to) but if you see attractive girls etc. when you're with him, just say nice butt, or she has big boobs, etc. just joke around. and then provide him with all the love and satisfaction that only a girlfriend can provide. The word girlfriend says it itself, you have to be a friend as well as being a girl.
I guess guys like it when they know they can be open with their girlfriends and talk to them about anything, and not worry if you'll get jealous at all. If he loves you then you don't need to worry about it, just make him want you more you know.
..hope this helped, take care though. hope it works, good luck. [ RATZY's advice column | Ask RATZY A Question ]
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