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does anyone have any ideas on how to get my parents trust back?
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hay you need to show your parents that you want it back... show them that you can be trusted again by being good, doing as your told and do try to do things like (chors/ extra things) without being asked, that will show them you can be trusted again...
xoxo sal
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My mum stopped trusting me at one point (long story), ino it sounds childish bu all i did was jus be good for a while, e.g. do as she says, be in on time etc. Thers nothing else you can really do =] Hope I Helped x x x
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my advice is to lay low for a while. for the next couple of weeks, try not to ask to go do stuff with friends or whatever as much. and when school starts again, do your homework and stuff. it kind of depends on what you did to lose their trust in the first place, but those are the basics for gaining it back. also, if you have a car, offer to go pick up dry cleaning or go grocery shopping or something. keep your room clean, too, in case your parents decide to peek in there. once you've shown them that you can pretend that you have your life together, you can go back to normal. also, after a while they will probably forget they were ever mad at you.
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that would time time, you will need to prove to them that they can trust you again.. i dont know what you did to loose thier trust, but whatever it was.. dont do it again, best bet dont even talk about it cause it will remind them about it... try to spend a lot of time with them, and talk to them a lot, when you talk to them about your life, hangout with them, tell them things, all that stuff.. it makes them feel like you are closer to them and it really works on trust...
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I don't know what you did, so I'm not sure the extent you ruined their trust for you. All you can do is try to be honest from now on. Show them that you are responsible and just an overall good person. Try being easy going when they ask you to do things such as chores, favors, etc. Or if they tell you can't do something, then don't put up a fight. I guess you just need to show them that you know what ever you did was wrong, and your ready to change. good luck. =]
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