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Getting Bullied by a Friend
I'm sorta gettin bullied at school by my best friend! She's really nice and all... but... she's bullying me about my hair colour. I bought a chunking kit and my mom did my hair at home, which is way cheaper than going to a salon. Anyway, it went all wrong. two of the chunks ran in to each otther and cause a huge blonde streak right by my face. And on the other side it's brown for about 3 inches and then its blonde. I tried getting a haircut to help a bit but it didn't work!
This same thing happened when I was the first of my all my friends to get a piercing at the top of my ear. Every time I did something to annoy her she would whack where my earring was. I eventually had to go to the hospital and get the earring removed because it was soo swollen.
I think she's jealous. And I guess jealousy sometimes hurts. but How can I get her to stop bullying me? I really want her to continue being my friend cuz she is a great friend. So don't tell me to be friend her cuz I'm not.
Please help me!
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i also had a friend who was nice to me and everything..
but whenever i bought a new outfit
or had new shoes
she'd say something to the effect of "that looks dumb on you" or "ew nice shoes NOT."
i remember one time i had a pair of bermuda shorts, plaid orange ones. and she sat there and complained about how she wanted a pair really bad.
then everyone started complimenting me on them, and she was all "ew those are really gay looking. they're too big for you they make you look fat"
she's obviously jealous of you,
and so when you have one little itty bitty flaw, she notices it and takes it as an opportunity to take you down and make herself feel a little better about herself.
dont buy into it.
ignore her.
she's jealous because you have something[s] she wants.
& tell her-
tell her that it hurts when she does/says mean things.
and ask her why she does it.
i really hope i helped!
oh & as for your hair, it'll grow out.
trust me, ive messed my hair up more than once and it looks fine now =]
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Say " I GET IT, OK!?". Or say can you quit, It's getting old. You're going to need to piss her off or make her feel uncomfortable unfortunatly.
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