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how 2 stop my split persinality
i have a split persinality 1 of them im just a plain old teenager and im in a cristianrock band where i play base and sing and always do right the other side of me im a relly bad kid i did do drugs but quit but i still dip drink and do sexual things and steal and im always depresed but im not bipoler weve tested that and what should i do
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You are probably like this because you feel that you need to be accepted by both of the "sides". Or maybe you just enjoy both. I'm guessing you are a christian because you said you are in a christian band, well do you enjoy this because you like music, or do you enjoy it because its the right thing? It's called morals, and you need to set them straight; you need to straighten out your prioraties and know who and what you are going to live for. Christ? or the drugs and the sexual things. It's hard but thats what life is about. don't be two faced about it, because its not "another side of you", its you, because you feel the need to do those bad things. Its not bipolar because thats when your happy and then your so depressed, not multi-personalities. Ask God to help you rise above those bad things, and pray for frogiveness, and maybe you could get some help with your depression. i realy hope to help and i hope i didnt come across as mean because thats not what i intended!
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Maybe you are trying out different groups and just exploring, as all teenagers do, to see which is the best fit for you. Everyone wants to fid a place where they feel like they belong, but make sure that you don't LOSE YOUR OWN IDENTITY in the process. The pressure to conform to the ways of the group can be very strong, and sometimes you forget what YOUR OWN values and opinons are becaue you acquire those of the group.
I suggest this: instead of trying to find a group to fit yourself into and conforming to what they do in the group, try to find out who YOU are first...then see what group best fits YOU. If there isn't one, start your own! Like if your into environmental issues, for example (or whatever it is that you like) start a group at school. That's why I did and I met a lot of new friends that shared my beliefs and values- there was never pressure for me to change anything about myself because it was my own group.
But whatever you do, please stay away from the drugs stuff- it's bad news all the way around.
And you never know if it's laced with someone dangerous that could ruin you for life. I knew someone once who smoked pot that was laced with something and went completely nuts!!! She starting having hallucinations and thought that Satan was talking to her- really scary stuff! It drove her so crazy that she almost tried to kill herself and ended up in a psych ward.
Don't believe people when they say these things are harmless. Drug dealers sometimes get a weak batch so they try to 'spice it up' by adding everything from rat poison to embalming fluid (yes, you heard me right!) among many other poisons so that they can still sell it at a premium price. Which means that every time you do drugs you're taking a big risk.
You don't want to get involved with that. Take it from an older person who knows people who've made that mistake.
good luck. =)
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I dont think you should entirly jump to going straight to the doctors
i think that your still only a teenager and that your confused
you need to try and find yourself
you might find that your true self is a mixture of these two "personalities"
the actions you mentioned are actions, and arent related to your actual personality and temperament, you can still be a nice person but drink, i thin you just need to try and find yourself and that might take time, but if it does get any worse then i would suggest going to maybe your school counsellor.
But as it is, i think your sound just like a confused teenager (not being patronising)
good luck :)
xx
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Try going to a doctor to get an accurate result.
Because the first thing that comes to mind is Split personality disorder.
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