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uhh..again new
ok so i got off work the other day and was waitin for a ride home.
i ran into this guy and we hit it off pretty good we talked for awhile and exchanged numbers.
we have been talking alot on the phone lately and he keeps saying how he wants me to be his gf but i tell him im not sure
i mean i like him alot but he is 18 and im 14
is that a big enough difference to not date him?
i mean ive dated older guys forever but its illegal since he is 18 not like we'd get in trouble but just the thought. but still i like him alot
ahh
someone help
PLEAZ..
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well fist, heknows how old you are right?
second, yes it is illigal, but if your ok with it, and he is ok with it.. then i think its ok to go for it...
maybe this is very dishonest..but maybe keep your parents out of it..because maybe they will not think it is ok and involve the police about it.. and then he will get in trouble.. and if you guys have sex... there is a great chance he can go to jail...
so basically just think hard about all the risks you guys would be taking, and if it still seems worth it, then yea go for it...
ope i telped =)
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Boys, boys, boys. They're a mess. Here's what i say-
Stay friends. like everyone else was saying, you guys are on different levels because of the age difference. 4 years might not seem like a big deal but trust me on this, boys minds have way different thoughts. So you may be thinking it's just a fun relationship when he may be thinking he wants more. If he likes you as much as he says he does, then i think he would respect your decision if you just wanted to stay friends. And who knows, maybe if you guys are friends long enough and understand where youre both coming from, you could really hit it off :)
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I wouldn't suggest it.
With most relationships with an age gap like that both people in the couple think differently. I'm not saying just because he's 18 he'll want sex but he might want to do something mature while you wanna do something fun.
He might see one thing one way, and you'll see it differently.
My personal opinion is you shouldn't, but it's just my opinion.
Also the illegal part is a big worry too. It might not actually be illegal. In some places it's only illegal if you're doing sexual things but it depends on what country you live in, then it depends on what state you live in.
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He knows how old you are right?? I mean say you do get caught, he will still get in trouble regardless of what anyone says. Even if your parents said they approved!!
I say you stay friends with this guy and thats about it.
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