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annoying stupid friend?
15/f
I have a friend, who is the biggest ditz ever. I love her and all, and I can be a pretty big ditz myself. But, I do know proper english. I'm not the best, but I'm not stupid, at all. An example of how stupid she is, is the word 'rational.' She thought it had something to do with the goverment... see what I'm dealing with? How do I cope with her? Shes so much fun to hang out with, but when it comes to 'big words' as she puts it, its impossibleee talking to her.
What should I do?
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You have to look at the good and the bad in people. If this girl just really isn't bright, then she can't help it and there is nothing that you can do about it. A lot of girls do just put on an act because they think it's cute, so don't laugh at her when she makes a mistake. Just act like she is being serious. If she is, then, well... she is legitamately stupid and you have to overlook it. If she is trying to be cute, then she will see that you don't think it's funny and that it is only making you think that she is dumb. Not many people I know want to be looked at as dumb, so she will probably come around.
Best of Luck.
Sarah
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Your friend might not be as ditzy as she appears. Some girls get the idea that it's cute or funny to be an air-head, so they act like ding dongs in order to get attention. Usually it's just a phase and they eventually grow out of it.
Or maybe your friend really isn't that bright when it comes to certain things. We all have our talents & strengths, as well as our weaknesses and shortcomings.
Either way, that's just the way your friend is right now. But obviously she has some other traits that you really like. If you enjoy hanging out with her, try to look past her ditziness and enjoy the qualities that you like about her.
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