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Well, I sent a boy who lives in Florida who I've been in love with since I was 3 a letter that was asking if he had feelings for me. He did at one point but I wanted to know if he still did. Then I wrote I'm going to be honest I still have strong feelings for you. It's been 3 days and he still hasnt emailed me back. Is it safe to say he is ignoring me? HELP!!!!!!!!! I REALLY REALLY LOVE THIS GUY!!!!!!!!!!!
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A letter or an email? I'm assuming you sent an email, but it it's a letter it may not have reached him yet. In any case, the reason he hasn't responded is probably because he is unsure of what to say. I'm guessing you guys live far apart, and that creates two problems. The first is that he is unsure of what to do, and if he does have feelings for you, you live far apart so that could be a big deal, admitting you guys like each other and having to deal with the distance. The second thing that could be happening is that he may (don't want to jump to conclusions but it is possible) have a girl back where he is. Either that or he is just plain unsure of things and or confused about his own feelings. Admitting you like someone up front and out of the blue is a lot of confrontation for some people. It's rare that people flat out ignore other people so I wouldn't go straight to that. And plus, not everyone checks their email that often; who knows maybe he's in summer camp? There are so many different things that could be going on. It might be safer to get to know how he's doing and for him to get to know you better before dropping the bombshell, so to speak. Still, it's admirable that you were brave enough to tell him this. I guess all you can do is keep waiting... good luck!
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he might be ignoring you, or maybe he hasnt checked his email yet. he also could be thinking of what to say.
it may take some time, so just wait a few more days to see if he responds or not.
if he doesnt respond, then email him again and tell him that youre wondering why he hasnt responded and you wanna know if he has feelings for you too or not.
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There are a number of reasons why he hasn't responded yet:
1. He hasn't checked his email since before you sent it.
2. He is ignoring you.
3. He doesn't know how to respond.
4. He's grounded or something- so he can't get on the computer.
RELAX! It probably isn't the second option. If that was the reason- I'm sure you wouldn't like him. Its usually obvious if someone is that type of person right from the get-go.
Maybe try emailing him once more in a few more days [I think its too early at this point]. Ask him why he didn't respond- but that might seem desperate. Just give him some time. I'm sure you're just overreacting. =]
--Jack
(15/m)
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