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my cousin and my "brother"
About 5 years ago my brother Barry brought home a kid named Cory. Barry brought him home so he could work on the ranch with my family. He was just staying for 2 weeks but then ended up staying for 5 years. In this time my cousin (Bailey) who was 14 and Cory 24 started dating. They kept it secret, but it went on all the time. All this time Cory had become my brother. My brother Barry died 2 years ago from a drunk driver. He was 24. Bailee was 16 and Cory was 26 My whole family and Cory watched him die. Before we were told that Barry would not make it, Cory and Bailey were hugging and I saw them. She was crying and Cory was crying too. I gave Cory a hug and my cousin and I kept telling him he had to stay. We both knew my brother wasn't going to make it. Cory promised me so many times that he would not leave me or the family. Well I was 13 at the time. So about three days later they turned off life support and my mother, 2 other brothers, and my dad watched him die. Now Bailey is 18 and Cory is 28. They finally told everyone about the dating situation. Well Bailey is going off to college and Cory is going back to college with her. I'm so jealous. I'm 15 now. He is like my brother and I hate that Bailey is taking away all I have left of Barry. Barry and Cory were really good friends and they were so much alike and Cory promised Barry on his death bed that he would take care of me and HE'S LEAVING!!!! He should stay with me. I love him sooo much(as a bro). I want him to stay i'm so jealous. And I think she is a stupid bitch for taking him from me. I don't know what to do. It's killing me. I'm so upset. Please any advice will help.
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Wow i am really really sorry about your brother. I think that you shouldn't make Cory stay with you, even though it is for a good reason. I'm sure he isn't going to just leave you for dead there all alone. You should talk to him and let him go away to college, because it is selfish of you to not. So anyway, you should sit down with him and tell him how you feel and you guys could maybe like make a deal that he can go to college, if he promises to call you like every other day, and you guys can talk, so it will be like he is there, even though he isn't. He could come back and visit every holiday and try to visit on some weekends if you are really missing him. i hope i helped and i hope it all works out!
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You need to let go. Cory will always be a brother to you and so special and your going to see him now and again but its not your choice what he does with his life.
You have to understand that Cory needs to move out and embrace the world with his love. I know it must hurt so much for you but he cannot possibly stay forever by your side.
Right now you need to stay strong and positive. He is and will always be your brother at heart and you can't blame your cousin from taking him away from you because they are just making their lives together now.
As a sister and cousin you need to be there for both of them. You need to accept they want to be together with each other.
Theres nothing really you can do to stop them and you can't stop them because its their decision. They are moving on in their lives as you will soon to.
Love xXxPunKi-PiXiExXx
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You need to grow up. Just because you want him, doesn't mean he want's to spend his whole life with you. There are bigger and better things out there, and that's selfish of you to want to keep him away from these things. He'll still visit, it's not like he's leaving you forever. Just be happy that he's happy.
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