my boyfriend and i have been going out for ten months. Everything has been pretty great, we had a couple rough spots, but things turned out okay. Well he gave me his myspace password, and of course, me being curious, i went on it. i was looking through his messages, and this girl kept saying i was a stalker and immature and stuff. I confronted my bf about why he doesnt stick up for me, and he just said that he's tried but they don't do anything and keep talking about me. i then said, why are they even your friends then? and he was like, cuz they're cool. and then he called me paranoid. like two times. what should i do??
you cant expect him to give up all his friends whether they like you or not. I know this sucks but its the truth.But he of course should tell them to knock it off and if they cant then dont say it around him.
our guys are supposed to think of of as their everything so your bf should stand up for you.
You most def. do not deserve to be called those names.
I would tell him to have a chat with them or its over just as a wake up call.
LiSaxOBaBii answered Saturday July 28 2007, 7:45 pm: This may be a little drastic, but if you're wondering if you should drop the relationship or not...I think you should. He should be your protector and if he can't protect you against words from his peers, then how could you find comfort in your relationship?...Do what seems right. [ LiSaxOBaBii's advice column | Ask LiSaxOBaBii A Question ]
footballchick2 answered Saturday July 28 2007, 6:06 pm: This is gonna sound mean, but I'm gonna give it to you straight. (I'm a girl, too.) He doesn't care. Those girls talk about you, but they're jealous of you, to be talking about you TO your boyfriend. But he doesn't care, because it really doesn't matter, and he's a guy. He doesn't like to get emotional, or confront those girls and say "OMG we're not friends anymore." Do you get what I mean? If I were you, I'd ignore it. They're just a bunch of whores on myspace, in my opinion. Let it go, because they're just being bitches, and they're most likely jealous of you. Wow, talking about you to your boyfriend. Pathetic. But ignore it, because it shows how strong you are. Guys love girls who are confident about themselves, don't let some bitches bring you down. Hope I helped =] [ footballchick2's advice column | Ask footballchick2 A Question ]
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