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pregnant from fingering but unsure?


Question Posted Saturday July 28 2007, 12:51 am

okay well lately i've been really worried and i need to know if this is something i should be worried about.
me and my boyfriend were fooling around and i gave him a handjob and he fingered me. i don't think he had any cum on his fingers, and he told me he didn't. i don't remember if he touched himself at all turning this.
the only 'side effects' i've had have been lower body cramps and i felt dizzy today. but, i'm also due for my period next week.
i've been looking for the answer to this on the internet, but i can't find a direct answer.
all i know is it's unlikely, but possible.
from what i know, my boyfriend had no cum/precum on his fingers, i just get very paranoid really easily.

please answer me the best you can.

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whoaxbabe answered Saturday July 28 2007, 9:08 pm:
You`re most likely NOT pregnant (:
it is hard to get pregnant by getting fingered with cum or precum. & if he told you that he didn`t have any on his fingers, then you should trust him because he probably doesnt you want pregnant either. You even said yourself that you know he had no cum/precum on his fingers, and if he has NO precum/cum on his fingers, then no you can`t get pregnant.

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Razhie answered Saturday July 28 2007, 11:43 am:
You are probably not pregnant. Like you said, it's very unlikely to get pregnant from sperm on someone's fingers, possible, but terribly unlikely.

What you should realize from this is this:
You aren't ready to be fooling around sexually.
I'm sorry if that hurts your feelings or if you disagree, but you are not.

Sex is risky. It always is. Even if you use the pill, a condom, top-secret government spermicidal lotion and an Amazonian anti-fertility voodoo doll. There is ALWAYS a risk.

If you can't accept that risk maturely and still live your life without extreme stress and misery, then you probably shouldn't be having any sort of sex. What that stress means is that the risk for you is just too great. It just isn't worth it.

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Jenny_411 answered Saturday July 28 2007, 10:53 am:
well you can't get preganagt from a person fingering you and if he did have cum in his fingers I think he would wipe it off I don't think he wants to get you preganant.....and the reason why your feeling ill is because your really nervous, I had the same side affects my stomach was killing me,I felt light headed but I wasn't pregnant it was only because I was soo scared and paranoid. so don't worry your not pregnant but if you still feel like you are pregnant take a pregnance test a week later. and you will no your answer.

*Jenny_411

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