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new me
ok well i have not had a boyfriend in a little over one year. it is most likely because i am not that attractive. so i am going to start a new me. anyone especially boys tell me what boys like to see in girls and maybe what style and makeup and stuff to look like. please write back asap. i want to do this before school starts again!! thanks!
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listen to me:
DON'T CHANGE FOR OTHER PEOPLE.
just be yourself. if you act differently around guys to get them to like you, then they don't like the real you. it's that simple.
stay the way you are. it'll be better in the end.
-collin
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okay so i get why you want to change and all. you should change for yourself, not for anyone else. And, i no this is like immposibly hard to imagine, but, last yeari had this HUGE crush on this amazingly gorgeous guy and finally he asked me out! it was a dream come true! i couldn't stop smiling for like a week! but as the days went on, it wasn't all that great. yes, having a boy friend is fun because you have someone to call your own and to kiss and stuff like that, but it's really not all that good. It distracts you and takes up to much of your life! i eventually broke up with him like less then a month later. I no your thinking that it will be different, but trust me, unless you have true love, it's not that good
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Hello.
One thing I'm going to tell you right away is something you aren't going to like to hear:
DO NOT, under ANY circumstances, change yourself JUST to get a boyfriend.
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Here was my answer:
First- I'm going to tell you that relationships aren't all they are cracked up to be. Sure- they are fun having someone to share things with and be with. But they involve a huge commitment and if you end up with someone who is clingy- they'll want to be with you every minute of every day- and you might not have time for friends or anything else you want to do. I say this because my ex-girlfriend was sort of like that- and got mad if I was busy with other plans.. and it was just really retarded. I haven't had a girlfriend since then [last December, I believe].
Anyway- the best way to attract a guy is to be yourself. If you try to change yourself just to get a boyfriend [especially at your age]- you'll just end up with someone who only likes you for what you've become- not who you are. If you be yourself- and don't change- you'll attract more guys who actually care about your personality rather than just your looks.
I myself like any type of girl. I honestly don't judge looks as much as I do personality. If a girl is absolutely stunningly beautiful, but she's a bitch- why would I like her? What would our relationship be? What would we talk about? Her latest hair extensions? Yeah- that would be REALLY nice *Sarcasm: Party of one!*...
If a girl has a really nice personality- and she's really outgoing and sweet and nice and smart- and she's not necessarily the best looking girl- but she's not super unattractive- then I'll most likely want to date her over the beautiful bitch.
Do you get what I'm saying? If you let guys see your personality more than your looks- you'll end up with someone great. Trust me- most guys prefer personality over looks- they just don't know it yet =].
--Jack
(15/m)
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