ive never really gotten in a fight before except for with my brother and we never actually beat eachother up ya know? and lately ive been "involved" with this girl who has a psycho ex that wants to kick my ass, and im probably stronger than him but i dont really know how to fight? i mean i can punch and stuff but yeah any advice is appreciated, telling me to talk it out etc etc is not appreciated hah
Never throw the first punch. If the first punch is thrown by you then he can say that it was self defence and you would get in trouble. The first columnist had great advice. If you say that then he might just back off.
If he doesn't, and he starts integinizing you and starting stuff, just stand there and take it. He could possibly loose intreset. If he doesn't loose interest and throws a punch, dodge under it and punch him in the gut, hard. If your reflexes aren't great, maybe you should work on that. Try and avoid any blows to the head, even on him. Possibly nose, that hurts a lot.
Haha, my friend and I used to get into random fist fights all the time for the fun of it, so hopefully some of this will help.
caramella answered Thursday July 26 2007, 4:25 am: you can tell your brother to back you up in the fight you know...but yeah kick that guys ass..IF HE STARTS...dont go walkin outta nowhere and punch him lol thatll make you look your YOU started it...ok punches in the face are always the start [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
WhenIComeAround answered Thursday July 26 2007, 2:45 am: Obviously he's psycho so talking isn't going to help, haha.
With the risk of sounding like some old person, violence isn't the answer.
If he's psycho you don't know what he's cabaple of. You may rock up to the fight ready to kick him and throw a few punches but he may rock up ready to stab you or with a weapon.
I really can't help you, maybe you should try ignoring him? Or just the smart one in the situation and say something like "Listen, why go through all this trouble? If we fight we may have to see each other again. If we just get out of each other's lives we will never have to speak again." [ WhenIComeAround's advice column | Ask WhenIComeAround A Question ]
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