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I went out with this guy and he is the one who broke up with me, becuase we are in diffrent countries for the summer. He still likes me, but we've went out about 4 times. And he is the one who breaks up with me. I told him that I didn't want to go threw him breaking up with me again, because it is really anoying... He lkes me now, and I kind of like him, but I don't want to tell him, because all my friends and other people in my school are telling me don't go out with him again... He isn't right for you.
Now I don't know what to do... What happends if I like him a lot again and he still likes me... He said he wouldn't ask me out, but I might want to go out with him.... I'm the kind of person who gets asked out, I don't ask 'em out... I've had about 2 boyfriends so far. 4 from this guy who I'm telling you about and another person who I dumped because he was too shy around me! :\
Please Help Me!!
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People are right when they tell you to leave this guy alone. And if all that he's done and put you through, the four times that you've been going out and breaking up with you; and you still can't resist him, then I don't know what will do it then. Just remember the pain and negitivity he caused you and hopefully that'll shield you. From what you've written, he doesn't deserve you and you shouldn't waste YOUR PRECIOUS TIME on him. That's for those who care. Use the strength that you would've never thought that you had and just forget about him. Let him go. There will be others. And don't try so hard, that may be your problem. Don't try so hard when it comes to relinquishing those feelings. You're letting go b/c it's something that u need to do for u. Don't let him continue to fool you. Fool you once, shame on them, and fool you twice shame on you. Don't let it happen again, be strong, and don't try so hard when it simply comes to letting him go b/c your needs are the only thing that matters. And you need this to happen. Bye...
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Well, I think that the reason he broke up with you before he went away is because he wanted to keep his options open. Just in case he wanted to have fun over the summer in the other country. Well I guess you could say that he is being fair and practical. But now he's back and thinks he wants to see you again. Well maybe he learned something. Maybe he learned that he made a mistake. My adivce is that you are both young. At any time, either one of you could change your mind about the other. That is what dating is all about. Being young is the time to do those kinds of things, after all, you don't want to be experimenting or still searching when you are in your 30's and married. So he shopped around, you can too. But in the end, the two of you could end up back together. This happens all the time.
There is no harm in going back with him. the harm is when you put in more committment that he does. YOu think this is it! for the rest of your life. He's thinking.."This is great, for right now".
I say go out with him, find out exactly what he did do last summer. Just don't make a committment.
If you are ONLY looking for a long term relationship, then I wouldn't choose a guy who likes to keep his options open.
MIchele
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