(Male, 21) I have a friend who I work with who's been one of my best friends for a few years now. Lately, I have been having really strong feelings for her. I can't stop thinking about her either. She's been acting really weird around me as of late, but she doesn't know I like her. She's very friendly towards our other friends but seems ignorant and sarcastic towards me, like she's getting tired of me or something. It's driving me crazy, what should I do?
Michele answered Wednesday July 25 2007, 3:41 pm: Well, I think she does know that you like her, and I suspicion is that she does not feel the same way about you, and since you have actually told her that you like her, she doesn't have a chance to actually tell you that she only likes you as a friend, so she is acting badly towards you so that you won't get the idea that there is any chance at a relationship with her.
And for all you know someone may have told her.
So, if you can forget about the love relation ship, (which you should since it has to be her decision also) and want to save the friend relationship. She needs to get a new message from you. The one that says that you just want to be friends.
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