|
Blunder Part 3
HI Ms,
Truth is. I really like this guy.. and the fact that I did it with him was cause Iliked him so much and I wanted him to be the first.. not because he was there and it was the right moment..but because it was him.. and I had some real attraction to him and hoped to take things to the next level. Its important to have that physical attraction to be in any relationship and I wanted to know if we really had it.. I dunno he might be just thinking that I am eazy.. which I am not. so I dunno what to do.. I dont want to sound desperate or phsy by asking him all those questions soo im confused...
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Well, the hard part now is that he may not have been thinking the same thing. He may have just been thinking you were nice, attractive, and he was going to get some. Not really thinking beyond that.
What were your conversations like before you met? Did he indicate that he was looking for a relationship? Did you talk about being together in that way?
To me it just really sounds like he is freaked about being your first, and I am not sure you will be able to get him past that. I know you want to see him while you can since it sounds like he doesn't live near you, but it might be better just to back off a bit and go back to the way things were before the sex.
I doubt he thinks you are easy, I am thinking he thinks that you are ready for something he is not. Guys just move so much more slowly than we do, sometimes you have to slow yourself down so that they have a chance to catch up. If you pour your heart out to him now, he's going to back away even further. Express to him that you really hope you can get together again before he leaves, and then see what happens.
]
More Questions: |