(SORRY THIS IS SOOO LONG!)me and my sister tell each other almost everything and were good at not telling anyone else.its just that shes good friends with our god mom and sometimes shell tell her things i have told her thinking our godmom wont say anything.well most of the time it ends up back to me cus our godmom starts asking me questions about it.well anyway i recently got a bf who works at my school over the summer and i go there everyday cus my dads the principle.well hes 18 and im 14!im always talking to him on the phone and one day my sister askes me who was i alwys talking to on the phone and i told her it was none of her buisness and she got super mad and was like why wont you tell me! then she said well i guess we dont even need to talk at all! and she got really mad and walked away!im afraid that if i did tell her she would tell my godmom cus again there very very close and im afraid she will take it really bad and start asking me questions and it might get back to my mom cus there also good friends! also even if i told my sister to promise not to tell anybody one day if she gets really mad at me i afraid she might threatn to tell cus she has done that plenty of times before.and then im also afraid that if i dont tell her shell get really mad and might tell that ive been talking on the phone with a boy almost every night!i just realy dont want anyone to find out about him but then again i still wanna talk to my sister! if my parents ever found out(especcialy my dad) id be on punishment 4ever!!!theyd murder me!!!!(my siter is 16 if u needed to know)
If you want your parents to keep their trust in you, I suggest that you tell them.
Don't worry about your sister, just ignore her if she ever bugs you about telling her things that are supposed to be kept secret. Tell her that if she can't keep your secrets, then you can't tell her anything anymore until she does.
khadiya answered Wednesday July 18 2007, 12:35 am: You shouldnt worry about that. She will get over it. She just thinks that if she continues to act mad you will tell her. Stand your ground you dont have to tell her every thing. [ khadiya's advice column | Ask khadiya A Question ]
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