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so i always think i jinx myself by asking things like this especailly with this boy. so anyways. he started texting me again not for too long tho, like a few days, but we haven't texted in the past two nights. should i text him? i texted him one night first but idk if i should again. i heard i shouldn't because like boys wanna work to get the girl or whatever, but idk if he'll think i'm not intrested if i text him or if i'm too obessed if i text him. i honestly don't know what to doo.
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If it has been two days, it's your turn to text him. Yes, sometimes guys want to make the first move, but they also want to know you're interested. The key is to text him with something that made you think about him, not just "what's up" or "hi." Maybe you saw something on TV that you know he's interested in and want to know if he saw it, or you heard a song you know he likes and thought of him. So you could say, "Just heard (whatever song) and thought of you--what's up?" (Sorry I'm not using proper text messaging language, a little old to know it well. :) ) The key is, you text him next, see how he responds. If you get a one word response or no response at all, you'll know he's not interested--sorry. If he keeps up the texting, that's a good sign. Also, after you initiate the texting, let him do it next time. If you don't hear back from him, that's your clue he's not interested. In the meantime, keep your options open. This guy doesn't sound especially reliable and if you are too busy worrying about him, you could miss out on Mr. Right. Good luck!
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just dont text dont think about it hes obviously doing something else so if you do text and he doesnt answer ur going to get all worried and think he doesnt like you. so wait. yes let him work for you its fun!!
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hes probably just as confused of what to do as you are. just text him again and keep the convo going, and if hes not interested then hell give you signs. if he doesnt give you signs that he doesnt like you, then keep texting him. you shouldnt look desperate, but you shouldnt just keep waiting for him to make the first move, because he might be shy, and then nothing will ever happen. just remember not to come off too strongly=]
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