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friends orientaion.
okay. my friend lora has been getting really close to another friend who is also openly gay. including going to the beach with her. well the gay friend has told me that she likes lora, but she doesnt kno if she is gay or not. so my job is suppose to be, to find out if lora is gay or not. wat is the best way to do that. i dont want to be just like, are you gay?. so help please?
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hey, my name is 231 what you should do is you
should tell loras close lezbein friend it's her
job to do that not yours. ok but if you do want to ask lora if she is lezbein say " Lora we are freinds and all and we trust each other could you tell me if your gay or straight.
try that and see if that works ok.
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Emily
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Ask her a few discrete questions like, " Have you ever wondered what it would be like to make out with another girl" or " Have you ever thought about what it would be like to date a girl instead of a guy?" Questions like that won't give anything away, but you should be able to tell by your friend's reaction whether she is gay or straight.
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Ask , what would you do if a girl had a thing for you?
Usually that will tell you how she feels about gays in general.
If she says I dont know why?
Just say , I dont know ,someone asked me and I didnt know how to respond.
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It makes me sick to think about it...
If she is like that you will know , trust me.
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well you could like ease into the convo like first talk about boys orsomething and have a laugh and pay attenetion to what she says about them and then ask her if she's ever wonderd what kisssing or being with a girl in a realationship would be like. though it takes a lot of courage to come out so if she doesn't answer it the way you want her to when you can tell it's true than don't force her too.
(i myself am gay or well lesbian if you wanna say that)
best og luck
jesse
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