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making out problem
im 14 ...ok i've read like 1000 answers to how to make out and it all seems so weird the whole tounge action and i dont know i never made out before but i really wanna wit my b.f and he did it like 20 thousands times and im really scared cuz i dont no how and the other answers to like" put ur tounge in " really like dicussed me ..so i need some help !!!! and quick
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I say dive right in and try it! The only way to know if you like that kind of stuff is to try it. And don't go too fast! slowly you know-- ease yourself into it. If your not comfy with the tongue right away, then don't use it. If your BF is really as great as you hope, he won't mind!
lots of love,
leah
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First of all, nobody is a good kisser. Just because he has a little more experince doesn't mean he's talented at it or something. No need to fret. Once it starts, it'll all just sort of fall into place. Don't worry about where to put your hands or move your tongue. Since it takes two to make out, he'll kinda lead you along the way. Don't try to force anything, believe me, it'll be a little nerveracking, but completely comfortable once you get the hang of it.
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You can't be expected to be a kissing expert at the age of 14. It's completely understandable why you would be nervous and scared considering you've never done that before. No one can really tell you how to make out seeing as everyone has their own style. Just go with the flow and what feels right for you. I would avoid the teeth and focus more on teasing his tongue with yours. Run your hands through his hair and up and down his arms. Make it feel comfortable. And don't be pressured into anything you don't want to do.
Good luck!
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