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using me again?


Question Posted Friday July 13 2007, 1:44 pm

to make a long story short... my best friend once broke up with her boyfriend. then he asked me out and i said yes. we went out for a week and then he dumped me saying he still had feelings for my best friend. I was ok with that, but still i liked him and hurt at the same time. we stayed friends. Then my best friend broke up with him for good. and she was serious this time.

well now he is flirting with me, and he bought me earrings and a necklace. we talk on the phone for about 3 hours a day and he is talking about how he might bike over to my house and hang out.

well before he flirted with me again, he was talking about how he is going to hook me up with his best friend. and i do like his best friend...

soo yeah i like him and his best friend... and i think both of them like me back. aghh i don't know what to do! is he using me again??? who should i go out with? HELP ME PLEASE! I'M SO CONFUSED!

i like him but i don't want to get hurt again... but then i like his friend but i don't know for sure if his friend likes me back.


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kiran answered Saturday July 14 2007, 2:08 pm:
Its doesn't sound like he is using you. Its sounds like he might like you again but there is a chance he still has feelings for your best friend. I think you should find out if his best friend likes you. Like your best friend can ask him. And I think you should get your best friends opinion on this. She might feel weird about it or something. So find out if his best friend likes you and he doesn't, who cares because there are other guys. And the chance is maybe one of them isn't the perfect guy.

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killerface answered Friday July 13 2007, 3:17 pm:
Find out FOR SURE if his best friend likes you back. Then, your best bet would be to go out with him. Your best friend's ex broke up with you for a reason, yeah? What would stop him from liking her again?

Plus, you should probably find out what your best friend thinks of the situation. It might make it a little awkward between the two of you if you go out with the same boy, you know?

You don't have history with his best friend. If it turns out that he doesn't like you back, then, depending on what you and your best friend decide, you might be safer by not going out with either one of them.

It doesn't sound exactly like he's using you-- he may very well actually like you.. But he may very well ALSO like your best friend too.

Be careful, whatever you do.

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