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how do i?


Question Posted Thursday July 12 2007, 2:25 am

ok well my bf wants me 2 give him a handjob, but i suk @ giving them... so what should i do??

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Siren_Cytherea answered Thursday July 12 2007, 1:22 pm:
That depends on if you really want to do it or not. If you're uncomfortable with it and you don't want to, then tell him you're just not ready to do that yet.
If you are, and you're just afraid you're bad, then here's something you can say that'll fix it:
"Show me what you like."
Have him help you. Here's a hint, also - assuming he's circumcised - hold the base of his penis with your left hand, and use your right hand to do all the work (if you're right handed. If you're left handed, switch it up). You want to use lube or lotion or something, too. Otherwise it might hurt a bit. >.<
You can ask him while you're going up and down with your right hand, "You like that baby?" and watch his reactions. If he hesitates, or you feel really lost, just ask for help ("show me how you want it", or something).
Good luck!
-Siren =)

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sml111992 answered Thursday July 12 2007, 12:56 pm:
there is no way you can suck at giving that if your twisting it then ya u suck at it. but here ill help you.

DO..
give a firm grip like you holding a pole
go up and down slow at first and then fast
then squeeze it i guess bcuz if its goin into your pussy then it squeezes and it feels good but im not sure about it.

DONT...
twist it trust me ull get a rep for that like someone i hate did everyone still calls her twister.

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fiingersxcrossed answered Thursday July 12 2007, 11:48 am:
well do whatever your comfortable with, don't let him push you to doing it! -mo

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orphans answered Thursday July 12 2007, 11:34 am:
hey

well be honest with him! if it makes you uncomfortable to give hand jobs, then tell him that. he shouldn't be FORCING you to give him a handjob.

if you WANT to give him one but just suck at it & he's not forcing you, then it's really easy from there. just make-out with him to get him turned on & then [when he's shirtless] kiss down his upper body reallyyy slowlyy. unbutton his pants (still kissing your way down) and just move your hand up & down his penis. start out slow but then get faster and faster. moan a lot so he gets even more turned on. the key is doing everything slowly & with precision.

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