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My boyfriend wants to tell finger and feel me up, which im fine with, but he'll probably suck at it haha, so are we supposed to be making out while he does either, so that I don't have to like pretend that im enjoying itt...??
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Just be honest with him. For fingering, he probably hasn't done it before. After a few times with your guidance then he will be good at it. I talked to my boyfriend about it and now I get orgasms from simple fingering and direct clit contact. If he doesn't know much about the female anatomy then tell him what he's touching [like your clitoris for example] Tell him what you like and what you don't like because he's doing it for you. He wants you to get something out of it. Most girls make the same mistakes by pretending to enjoy it with fake moans.. but you realize that he's going to continue to do it that way and it's not going to be pleasurable.
You need to tell him to start out slow and to be gentle because it's a sensitive area. Make sure he cuts his fingernails. Tell him you don't want him to make you bleed up there and he will probably cut em.
Well, you might think he sucks at doing those things.. but it would be better if you were turned on before doing those. I doubt he would suck at feeling you up. You may not feel anything from it. Some girls get turned on by it and some don't. But I'm sure you'll like the extra attention on your body while you're making out.
Making out and feeling up can work together.
You don't always have to makeout when someone is fingering you. My boyfriend always sat up slightly and planted some kisses on me.. and tried to sneak some looks down there haha. [which turned him on and he did his thing better]
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You can make out if you'd like, and sure pretend like your enjoying it. LOL for his benefit anyways. It will give him a little more confidence!!
O and a tip, if you dont like it be his guide so you will like it.
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