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My parents wont respect my space.
I'm 16, and my parents are either always hounding me on something, or they're always telling me how I'm basically a loser in their eyes.
I've tried countless times, even with my therapist in the room to just let them know that sometimes, I do get angry because they keep up with this. We have tried to work out a compromise, but they last maybe one week.
They never payed attention to me when I was little, and I think they might be trying to make up for it possibly, now that I've grown used to not having anyone there- and I've learned to just handle myself on my own.
I basically need any kind of advice I can get for this situation, as to if its something wrong with me, or what I can do.
Please?
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There's nothing wrong with you and it isn't your fault that your parents treat you this way.Just flat out tell them that you seriously don't like how they treat you and you're not sure of how much longer you can take it.Make it clear that for once in your life you just want to know what it's like to have loving parents.If worst comes to worst and they remain unaffected...just let it go.Realize that you're better than them and you don't deserve the treatment that they're giving you.I'm not recommending this,but you could move out with parental consent since you're 16.Of course living alone as a 16 year old is difficult,so that should be your last option.
If this wasn't what you were looking for,just message me back and I'll see what I can come up with.
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