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Question Posted Saturday July 7 2007, 3:00 pm

hi, i have a problem.
i know this might sound stupid, but i get stressed pretty easily...
here's what happened:
i'm 15 and i'm a virgin.
one day, i gave my boyfriend hand while he was wearing his underwear, and his pants (it was a bathing suit).
he cummed in his underwear, and went to the bathroom to wipe off. he did wash his hands, and put toilet paper infront of his underwear because he didn't want me worrying about getting pregnant(it already happened before, that i thought i was pregnant, and i was talkign about it for a whole month, until i got my period, and calmed down).
then, we started making out again, and he was rubbing agaisnt me. i was wearing shorts, and underwear, but im afraid that my shorts AND underwear (which were pretty tight), moved.
i'm pretty sure that there wasnt any semen on his pants, since he washed his underwear with water, and put toilet paper incase it leaked.
This happened about 2 days ago, and i was kind of sick. i still am today (its a virus or somehting), and i feel a little bit nasueas sometimes, but that just might be part of the sickness i have.
am i pregnant???

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alisonmarie answered Sunday July 8 2007, 11:47 am:
If you are repeatedly worrying about getting pregnant after sexual activities, I would invite you to think about whether you feel really confident and ready to be engaging in these activities. If you decide you ARE ready, then I think it's important you take some time to think about what precautions could be taken to make you feel safer.

This could include NOT rubbing up against your boyfriend if it makes you this anxious afterwards. While it's true there is a chance of pregnancy if semen enters the vagina, it's also probably true that it is hugely unlikely any got near your vagina on this occasion. In future, since you wisely worry about your actions and the possible consequences, you may choose to not participate in this activity - or to ask your boyfriend to wear a condom.

Even in the incredibly unlikely circumstances that you are pregnant, you would not be experienging ANY symptoms at this point. Techinically, the egg would not have even implanted yet.

So take a deep breath. All this stress isn't good for you, or your relationship. Figure out what will make you feel safer, and discuss it with your boyfriend. I wish you all the best.

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