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Being a Bi?
Okay well im a girl and i am 13 and i love guys and on the other hand i love girls to i mean i have been with a girl and i have been with a guy and my friends think im just experamenting but the truth is i think i manely like girls. So i think im a lezbian. But when i told my friends this they went balistic and were like " Your a lez?" " you should die i mean you need to be straight like us, i dont wanna be seen with a freaky lez" and that was a direct quote. So can you help me with the way i feel on how there treating me?
love,
ShOuLd I lIkE gUrL's?if its gunna make me loose friends?
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Since you're 13, I wouldn't say that you're a lesbian just yet. This could all be a phase & you could be straight next week.
But, if you like girls -- then date them. If your friends are honestly that shallow that they would stop talking to you over your sexuality then they're dumb & you shouldn't be friends with them.
Date whoever you want, be whoever you want. Fuck the opinions, they don't matter. If something makes you happy, keep doing it. People are always gonna talk, it's just a matter of if you listen to it or not.
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Do what YOU want. Don't listen to what friends want for you. At your age, girls only have THEIR OWN best interest in mind for their friends. They are just unwilling to accept the idea of you being a lesbian. Plus, you're 13 years old. You have a long time to decide what you are. If you think that you might be a lesbian, just let things happen and you'll figure out for sure when you're older.
As for your "friends" they aren't real friends if they won't support you in every thing you do. They are the wrong people to be with- find people who will like you for you, not just because they think you're a great addition to the make-up club. Be yourself and follow what you want for you. Make decisions like that for yourself.. and don't let anyone tell you what you can and can't be.
--Jack
(15/m)
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You're only 13.
You might be gonig through a phase.
You're not fully mature, and you're expirimetning.
It's fine.
I wouldn't classify yourself as a lesbian or bi becasue you're so young.
Wait until you matture and what not to make a decision like this.
And if your friends don't support you, they aren't very good friends. I'd sit down and talk to them about it. Explain to them that it shouldn't affect the friendship you've built and you aren't even 100 percent sure if you're bi/lesbian. Good Luck!
<3 Laura.
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