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srry this is long but i need advice on masturbating when i can't sleep i normally rub my clit. that doesn't give me an orgasm though. all that happens is my legs twitch once maybe twice. and i don't like to finger myself it is just uncomfertable to me. is this normal? because everyone tells me that if i rub my clit then i should orgasm. nothing happens. i really want to experience an orgasm. then my friends tell me to use a vibrator or something that vibrates. i don't have anything that vibrates or a vibrator. not even a cell phone. is there any thing else i can use to masturbate? and i live somewhere where i don't get cold water. so the faucet wont work. plez someone... sights aren't the best but if it is necessary then go ahead and give me one. i would really appreciate it.
thank you.
15/f
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I think you also need a lubricant, then you can last longer without irritation.Be sure to move the labia away so that you have good contact with your clitoris. A hand lotion might do, but not one with a lot of perfume, because it might irritate you. vaseline is good, and cheap, but harder to clean up. KY jelly is best and is made just for that, is it a sexual lubricant and many men and women use it alone and together.
GOod luck'
Michele ]
If you are feeling the twitches when you are rubbing your clit, maybe all you need to do is keep going, the twitching could be your orgasm building. But I can't tell for sure because I'm not feeling your twitches haha.
You don't get cold water? And using the faucet is better with WARM water anyway, so if you get warm water, then give that a try. It works really good. You can always use random objects to masturbate, not just a vibrator. And I've even heard of people using a turkey baster to masturbate, so hey if it works for you, enjoy. ]
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