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no dating till i'm 16- female and 15
okay so i started to date this guy at the end of the school year and on the fourth of july was our three month aniversary. well i had him over a couple times and my parents freaked out. my dad said i couldn't see him or any of my guy friends for the whole summer. but i keep making plans with my girl friends and my guy friends and my boyfriend just "happen" to be there. well i feel bad because i'm lieing to my parents and i don't want to do that. i love them both. what should i do? follow my parents and suffer in my heart or keep lieing to my parents? when i think about not being with my boyfriend i just cry and when i think about lieing to my parents i just cry. what should i do?
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Have you tried saying this to your parents: "Well, what if I am with my girlfriends, and the guys show up, say at the mall, or at a friends house to go swimming, (whatever), What I am supposed to do, call you to come and get me to come home" Maybe they won't mind if you are all together. My parents always thought there was "safety in numbers". So groups were ok, but alone with my boyfriend, that was not allowed.
Good luck to you, and I hope you do have a wonderful summer
Michele
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If you really care for him hopefully he feels the same way about you and if he truelly likes you he can wait. just because you cant see him for 2 monthes doesnt mean you cant talk and email each other. I am guessing you guys will see each other once schools back in and before you know it you'll be 16. You guys are young and if you lose him its not that end of the world... if he can't wait then he's not worth your time right now because he doesn't care about you enough
just suck it up and have fun! your going to be a single lady! that means lots of flirting and fun on nights out with the girls
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I think you should stop lying to your parents and obey their wishes. Yes, it will be painful, but you'll be 16 soon and this will be a great test of your boyfriend's loyalty for you. If he can wait for you until you have your parents' permission, then you'll know that he's a sweet, wonderful guy who's worthy of being with you. If he becomes impatient and/or his eye begins to wander to other girls, then you'll know he's a jerk and that you can do better.
Don't look at this as a prison sentence. Your parents are wiser than you are and have been through what you're going through before. They have your best interest in mind. It's probably hurting your parents that they're hurting you. They don't want you to be sad, but they want what's best for you and this is what they believe is best. So tell your boyfriend that you're sorry but you have to obey your parent's rules - hopefully he'll understand.
Not only will you feel a lot less guilt, but 16 will be all the more sweeter when you finally get the permission to be with the one you love.
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