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how do I get him to notice me
Hey I don't know who to ask but I really like this guy and we are close friends and I've told him before that I like him but we did'nt get together. I want him to notice me as girlfriend material. How do I do subtle things that will slowly turn him on? I can't do kissing on the neck or sitting with a short skirt on. I wanna be classy but seductive how do i do it i thought you would probably know. Help as much as you can please. Thank you =.=
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Well, in order for him to see you in a different light, you really have to shorta play hard to get because hes so used to viewing you as a friend. Like flirt alot, and dont be trashy, but kinda show a little skin you no? that way he will start thinking of you of not just a friend sister type, but you will attract him. Try touching him occasionaly, like put your hand on his knees when your sitting by him, but make it seem on accident. When walking with him just randomly grab his hand, or just put your arm around him. when talking to him put your hand on his shoulder occasional. Also you could try to make him a little jelous, but not to much to make him uncomfertible. Smile alot, and laugh alot. laugh at his jokes, and dont do "guy" things with him, because then he'll only see you as a friend. and slowly start to do more and more of this stuff. hope everything works out:]
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You thought I'd know? lol.
Ok, well the main thing is to smile.
Show him that he makes you happy.
Laugh at his jokes, even if some aren't funny.
Play with his hair a little.
Compliment him, tell him he smells nice, looks nice today, etc.
Also, play fight with him.
But don't make yourself look desperate or anything...Just show him you're interested.
Start out with the laughing & smiling.
Move to complimenting and play fighting.
Then, after you've dropped some hints, maybe hold his hand. That's a major way to show him you're interested. Or, if you're sitting next to him, rest your head on his shoulder.
Don't flirt with other guys around him, either.
And don't literally tell him you like him, at least not at first.
Just start flirting with him and see if he gets the hint ;]
Hope this helps && good luck!
<3 Laura.
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