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his family....
so ive been with my boyfriend for over a year. i love him to death but would honestly love nothing more than to "break up" with his family. in a very small nutshell, they are just... not nice people. i come from a very close polite friendly family... and he, well, does not. any ways on how to deal? i see them alot [cant avoid that] =/
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It will be hard but you love your boyfriend too right? So when you take him, you take his family. And being polite will be hard but it something that will help and to avoid getting in fights with them. But your boyfriend put up with them his life so he can probably help you just talk to him about and maybe things will get better. Just hold on and things will get better.
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Be polite back to them anyway. [sort of just to spite them, if it makes you feel better.] Show them that you're a better person and that you're strone and can take whatever they dish out, because you care about your boyfriend so much.
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Its a crappy situation hun, but I have been there too. Hold your tongue, i know its hard, but when you take in someone, you take in their family too. Try nicely talking to your boyfriend about it. Maybe he can give you tips on how to cope with them, I mean he has lasted his whole life right? When it came to my situation I kept polite no matter what. One day it came down to me standing up for him and myself to them. If and when that does happen...there will be a whole new respect. But until then, avoid seeing them as much as possible, and when you do, ignore them....family problems suck.
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well this is what i would do just be nice back and if they dont accept who you are and how you like their son and their son likes you nothing should get in between you!!!
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