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i dont know what to do
i am 19 and i dont know whatto do. i was living with my babys father and we are still together but wantedto move back to my moms so i could get a job and car. i couldnt do it with my boyfriend so i thought this would be a good thing to do before we went any further in the relationship. well i moved yesterday and now i think i made a mistake. he told me that i was breaking up our family and i didnt think i was doing that untill recently.now i think i made a mistake. what should i do i mean should i move back or not? we have been together for almost two years and i dont want emily to not be around her dad growing up but if i dont get my stuff together here at my moms i just dont know what to do please hlp me.
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Yes, it is important that your child be around her father growing up. However, it is YOUR life. You aren't in a situation where she is never able to see him. What is more important is that you do what needs to be done in order to create a comfortable life for yourself and your daughter in the future. Getting a job is a fundamental step in that process. You're young. You need your parents support raising a child at such a young age. Emily's father should respect you for wanting to get your life in order. Don't feel like you made the wrong decision. You made a tough decision, but there is no right or wrong decision when it comes to something that can affect the rest of your and your child's life. This is a situation in which you have to really think about your priorities and act accordingly.
Best of Luck & God Bless.
Sarah
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its definetly normal to take sometime away from him: just a break: however long you would like but make sure emily(love the name:)!) gets to see her dad
best of luck& hope i helped! :)
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I think its good that you are moving out to help get your life together, but also it will be hard on your child (and in the future could casue emotional problems) if she cant see her dad...maybe you could find a way to divide up time with your child, or just make sure you at your moms house is a short arrangement...
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