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My boyfriend is jealous
My boyfriend is jealous of one of my good guy friends. I´ve been friends with this guy for a long ass time and we are just friends. We almost went out a long time ago and we have had sex. But If I wanted to be with him I would have said yes when he asked me out. I really love him but in a different way than my boyfriend. My boyfriend hates it when I talk or hang out with him. But get this he has a girl best friend and they hang out all the fuckin time. I was very jealous at first but I guess I dont care now.
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It seems to me you have a lot on your mind, what you need to do is tell your boyfriend exactly what you are thinking. Explain what you wrote here about how you chose him over your best guy friend, tell him how you feel it is unfair that he can have a best friend who is a girl and you cant have a best guy friend. Tell him that a relationship is built on trust and if he cant trust you then it would be hard to maintain a realtionship. If he doesnt understand it will start to effect the relationship which isnt healthy and then you will have to start asking yourself who is more important to you, your boyfriend or your best guy friend? Then thats where you have to choose between them which is an awful thing, hopefully it doesnt come to that. I hope you can talk some sense into him. good luck.
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If you've learned to deal with him being best friends with a girl-- tell him to get over his issues with you having a guy best friend. It happens. Tell him everything you've told us.
..Minus the sex part though, that probably won't help your case.
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I say you should just tell him everything you said here. Just leave the sex part out.
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