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flirting in middle school.
im going into eighth grade. and i want to know some flirting techniques that middleschoolers could use. please and thankyou :]
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Alrighty...well, I am in the same boat...but I started flirting last year... here are some tips I used...when you're talking...smile and laugh when he says something funny...even if you kinda didnt get it...sorta treat him as a friend but be more interested in what he says...i hope this helped!Bye!
Good Luck and Best Wishes,
Breezy:)
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Ok, here are a few subtle flirting techniques:
-Reaching out to touch his arm when you talk to him
-Eye contact while you're talking
-If he's across the room you can catch his eye, give him a little smile, and then look away
-Smile/laugh with him
-Brush against him as you walk by and then look back at him. If he looks back at you, smile.
Another thing is to ask guys about themselves. Guys love talking about themselves. Ask about his family or friends. "What's your favorite thing to do on the weekend?" "What did you do over the summer?" "Do you have any brothers or sisters?" etc.
Find something you know he's interested in, such as football for example. Watch the next game that airs, and then bring it up. "So the Patriots kicked ass last night, huh?" If you make an effort to like what he likes, he'll LOVE it. Or if he's into cars, do some research so you know a little about it and you can ask him stuff like "What kind of car do you drive?" "What's your dream car?" If he's a car guy, he can talk about it for hours.
Just take an interest in him. Guys love to know that a girl actually wants to hear about his love of sports or cars or...whatever.
Good luck!
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Well the best way to flirt is to ask the person about themselves. Look very interested in what they do, or say. Be a good listener. Make comments in between. Praise them or say you admire them. Statements like: "Wow, you did that?!?!" Or, You must have been scared" or, you're very smart. I mean use the words that are commond with kids today, I am not familiar with them all. And be confident! Nothing is more attractive that a confident female. It is sexy. Hold your head up, and smile. Be positive, like you don't have a care in the world, (even if underneath, you are really scared.) Be nice to everyone, so that no one can make negative statements about you for any reason. don't get caught up in the pettyness of girls who put down other girls, mostly because they are jealous. Jealousy is a wasted emotion. Boys don't like it, (even though they secretly like being the center of attention, it gets old if two girls fight over a guy for too long.)
Hope this helps. and good luck to you.
Wait, I want to say that being smart is very sexy also, but that won't become important to the men in your life, until you are in your twenties. But this is the time that you should be spending getting smart!
Michele
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