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16/m
Alright so Ive just begun to have an active sex life and Im really worried. Yesterday my gf and I were about to have sex and I could not get and maintain an erection. I had one earlier when we were still in foreplay but when it came time for sex I couldnt get one.
We ended up finishing up in otherways but whats going on? im really worried about this. I dont want my girlfriend to think that I dont like her or i think shes ugly because she really isnt. Do I have erectile dysfunction?
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The reason you can't get or in this case maintain an erection is quite simply because you're nervous. Is the whole sex thing still a little akward for you? Your girlfriend should know that it's not her, your, or anyone's fault. You just get so worked up that you can't...umm..perform. Try prolonging foreplay and see if that helps. Oh and PS you're way too young to have ED. ~Dani (f/20)
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There Isn't anything wrong with you, you can't force an erection, it will come naturally, seeing as you had one during foreplay (which is perfectly fine) you wouldn't be able to just get another straight away.
People can maintain erections for different amounts of time..
Next time just spend a minute or so on foreplay, or skip it entirely =P
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