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drinking :-(
14/f
Well one of my friends is a good friend but shes kind of new. Anyways theres a guy in our class that shes friends with but they both like each other. Well this guy asked her if she wanted to drink with him. She told me about this and I dont know what to say! I don't want to be like NO YOU'LL RUIN YOUR LIFE AND ILL HATE YOU. well idk i just dont want her to not like me anymore!! pleeease help %%thanks!
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ultimately, its her decision and if you get mad at her, your just going to lose her trust. but you should tell her that you dont agree with it. tell her that
A. if the guy is asking her to drink with him, hes probably doing it because he wants to hook up with her
B. its illegal and when your drunk, you dont care about much and its easier to get caught.
C. if her parents find out that she was drinking, she would lose their trust.
D. it might give her a bad reputation, make her sick, or create an addiction that could lead her down the right path.
if you tell her that and she still wants to do it, ask if you can come with her if its at a party, and if not tell her that you hope she will be safe and to please call her if she gets in any trouble.
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Well just tell her how you feel. Tell that you'll support her desicion although you don't agree on it 100%
Tell her that your there for her if things turn bad and to just be careful, tell her to eat something before she drinks or she'll be really sick.
Make sure she will be safe with this guy because there could be a possibility that he wants one thing and one thing only.
Good luck and tell her to be careful.
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Tell her that its her decision, ultimately, but tell her that you don't want her to drink, as it very well could lead to an addiction, and then it could ruin her life. Plus, she's underage, and its illegal. She could get in a lot of trouble.
--Jack
(15/m)
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